As many states across the country scramble to make decisions about how grades will be attributed to students for this semester, parents of high school students need to be cautious. While some states are providing students in public high school the option of having numeric grades or Pass/ No Credit entered in, there are consequences for either.
Let’s assume you have a 9th grader and he/she is not doing well in Algebra and would likely end the semester with a D for his/her final grade. Is it better to have the D on their transcript or Pass? This can get tricky because what if you and your child are thinking about the long game and want to build the grade point average? In North Carolina, passing and no credit will not impact the grade point average. For students who were already struggling, this could be a God send in the sense that colleges and universities are looking at whether or not you have the graduation requirements and not so much the grade in the required course.
Conversely, if you and your student do want the letter grade from the course, your student can take the grade they had as of March 13 or whatever grade is higher towards the end of this semester, and that will be the final grade. This grade will also be factored into the student’s grade point average. With the prevailing thought being that students can only improve their grades as of March 13, this new policy may prove to be beneficial to a number of students that were already doing well.
For students that were struggling prior to the stay at home orders and school closures, parents should not rush to just take a pass. I believe that if you’re looking towards the long game of graduation, college admissions and scholarships, a pass grade can throw a monkey wrench in your planning. Pass grades do not factor into your grade point average so your student will have to rely on the grade point average they had from the previous semester as a base. You also want to remember that many scholarships are heavily based on grade point averages not from a semester but cumulatively.
Final note, if your child is a graduating high school senior, their final grade point average (at least in NC) is going to be based on the final grade for the fall semester. This semester they will receive a Pass PC-19 or Withdrew WC19 based off of grades on March 13th. If they are or were failing, they will have opportunities through remote learning to bring the grade to passing. Also, only 22 credits are being required to graduate. PLEASE be mindful that what is required may differ from what college and universities require so check with each prospective school to see if they have changed their entrance requirements. If you don’t live in NC, check your State Board of Education website to see what the high school grading policy is. If your child attends private high school, inquire as to whether their policy on grading is impacted by COVID-19. Don’t assume, ASK!
Keep your foot on the gas and PRESS in parents, I’m here if you need me!

In the quest to keep my waistline trim and fit, I have exhausted every tactic and technique possible. Anybody know what I’m talking about?  Well, the latest rage is meal prepping and I tell you I think this thing is going to work for me. It does involve a little thought, time and preparation (hence the name) but the pay offs are great so far. I find that I have more time in my evening with my girls and husband, I don’t have that sinking feeling in my stomach when the girls ask, “what’s for dinner?” and I think I have just found my next investment platform in plastics! Would you believe me if I told you that prepping for college can provide you with the same kind of peace of mind? It’s true and I want to share 3 easy prep tips that can save your mind, your wallet and your household. I used them on my oldest daughter who graduated this May.
 

1. Start planning EARLY! Nothing good happens when I find myself up against the clock at meal time because I didn’t go to the grocery store BEFORE 6 p.m. and the meal the girls (I have 4) want, takes at least an hour and a half to prepare. Prepping for college is the same way. To get the best results for what you want for your child’s college experience, you really need to start in middle school. YES, middle school. By starting early, your child(ren) has the TIME to explore numerous academic pursuits to get a perspective of their interests. It also allows for ample engagement in community service and civic opportunities that they care about. Waiting until high school to do this adds unnecessary stress to your child and YOU.  My grandmother would tell me “haste makes waste.” Just like with food, it’s the same with college planning.
2. Make sure you have all the ingredients. There is nothing worse than planning for a meal only to discover that you’re missing something. With college planning you can be sure to have all the “ingredients” necessary for a painless process by creating a checklist. Do you know what high school classes are needed for college entrance? Have you prepared your child to take the SAT/ACT starting in the 9th grade? Have you encouraged your children to look at colleges and universities of interest online BEFORE 10th grade? Those are a few things that should be on your checklist as key ingredients.
3. Don’t Be Afraid of Convenience. Companies like Blue Apron and Hello Fresh are a God send for moms on the go who want to provide a great tasting meal but don’t always have the time to prepare it from scratch. Who feels bad when the outcome is a delicious meal and satisfied family? If you don’t have the time to delve into college prepping, there are educational specialists who can help take the guess work out of what needs to be done. Never lose sight of the goal: having a child fully prepared to enter college academically and financially prepared.